I have read what you have written back and forth with Dr. Grinder and Ms. Bostic St Clair.  After reading again what you wrote, I see that you were rude to both Dr. Grinder and Ms. Bostic St Clair in your last post to them. So I'll repeat my earlier request, but with corrections: Your reply on 03/06/2002 20:46:01 to the post given by Dr. Grinder and Ms. Bostic St Clair on 03/06/2002 19:18:00, contains some conclusions and describes some decisions of yours.  You seem to  base them partially on Dr. Grinder and Ms. Bostic St Clair's reply, partially on your reading of "Whispering In The Wind", and partially on what you believe about modelling people.  You could help me understand more of your post if you explain the reasoning you followed to arrive at the decisions and conclusions you wrote about.  In addition, your reply could demonstrate your interest in educating me rather than your interest in being rude or sarcastic.  What you wrote to Dr. Grinder and Ms. Bostic St Clair looked rude and sarcastic to me. thanks, nj