SO how does one achieve the level of deep unconscious rapport with oneself to the level you have John?  It seems this is what seperates you from the rest in terms of integrating changework so effectively with yourself. This is still a big big mystery to me and its not explained anywhere explicitly the process how to do so :) Would I be wrong in seeing that you engage in kinaesthatic metaphor as a way of building trust in you and unconscious?  Any preferred or recommneded techniques or ways..