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Topic: Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP
Posted by: Lewis Walker
Date/Time: 30/12/2003 20:39:32


You wrote "From my own experience, trust is an irrelevant issue ....etc"

Trust, as I see it in the therapeutic situation, is the acknowledgment by client and practitioner that the practitioner will do his/her best to assist the client in making the requisite ecological change....It is the product of a relationship whereby a client can allow him/herslf to be fully present and open to the process changes catalysed by the practitioner...

Of course, trust is also a state that is actually quite easy to elicit, anchor and use for abuse rather than ethically...

And of course, positive change/resolution of symptoms can also occur simply by the random introduction of noise into a system...irregardless of prior intention...without rapport or "trust".

Being trusted to get the job done (therapeutically) is, in my view, a vital ingredient to a successful encounter...

You wrote:
""...effective engagement of here-to-fore autonomously functioning aspects of "self"."

I have no idea what you might be referring to here but it certainly sounds intriguiring - care to offer something concrete?"

Probably just put too clumsily to be intriguing...It seems to me that human functioning (the "self", for want of any better word) is, for most of us, a mish-mash of poorly co-ordinated mostly out-of-awareness processes. Symptoms partly contain the uncontrolled behavioural repetition of autonomous processes....effective "treatment" requires specific engagement with these aspects....via any number of different methodologies/techniques...moving towards a greater degree of functional integration (consciously acknowleged or not)...


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The Truth About NLP23/12/2003 22:41:52Ex-NLP Person
     Re:The Truth About NLP24/12/2003 00:46:17Jim R
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               Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP27/12/2003 01:20:02Ex-NLP Person
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     Re:The Truth About NLP24/12/2003 03:18:25Road Runner
     Re:The Truth About NLP24/12/2003 04:08:47Don Genaro
          Re:Re:The Truth About NLP24/12/2003 13:58:44James McGruderstrong
               Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP25/12/2003 09:35:10nj
     Re:The Truth About NLP24/12/2003 15:20:09John Schertzer
          Re:Re:The Truth About NLP24/12/2003 17:32:49Lewis Walker
               Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP24/12/2003 18:19:58John Grinder
                    Re:Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP24/12/2003 21:19:52Lewis Walker
                         Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP26/12/2003 04:57:54John Grinder
                              Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP26/12/2003 09:54:15Lewis Walker
                                   Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP26/12/2003 19:26:53John Grinder
                                        Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP26/12/2003 20:52:03Lewis Walker
                                             Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP27/12/2003 00:05:59John Grinder
                                                  Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP27/12/2003 19:59:25Lewis Walker
                                                       Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP28/12/2003 02:50:57John Grinder
                                                            Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP29/12/2003 18:58:31Lewis Walker
                                                                 Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP29/12/2003 22:27:07John Grinder
                                                                      Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP30/12/2003 00:20:49Xlyklops
                                                                           Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP30/12/2003 19:30:06John Grinder
                                                                                Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP30/12/2003 23:42:17Xlyklops
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                                                                      Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:The Truth About NLP30/12/2003 20:39:32Lewis Walker
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     Re:The Truth About NLP27/12/2003 03:33:48Don Genaro
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