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Topic: Re:NLP Limited?
Posted by: John Johnson
Date/Time: 30/06/2004 17:52:02

I recommended a friend, who had been date raped, to my instructor.

FIRST OF ALL, YOUR FRIEND HAS TO BE 'HIGHLY MOTIVATED' ENOUGH TO WANT TO IMPROVE HER SITUATION. YOU PUSHING SOMETHING ONTO, I.E. FORCING HER TO GO TO SOMEONE WHEN SHE MAY BELIEVE SHE DOES NOT WANT TO, WHEN SHE BELIEVES SHE IS NOT READY, WILL DO NOTHING FOR HER.

SHE HAS TO BE HIGHLY MOTIVATED - BY HERSELF.

ANOTHER POINT: EVERY EXPERIENCE, WHETHER YOU LABEL IT 'GOOD" OR "BAD" ONE HAS TO GARNER "A POSITIVE LEARNING" FROM IT. WITHOUT THIS LEARNING, THERE CAN BE NO GROWTH. WHAT POSITIVE LEARNING DID SHE LEARN FROM HER EXPERIENCE? I BET NOTHING. AND YOU WONDER WHAY SHE IS THE WAY SHE IS. HUMAN BEINGS ARE LEARNING CREATURES.

I AM NOT THERE TO SEE HER MYSELF. SO I CAN ONLY GO ON "YOUR INTERPRETATION" OF YOUR FRIEND.

ASK YOUR FRIEND THESE QUESTIONS: "WHAT DOES SHE WANT?" "WHAT HAD PREVENTED HER FROM GETTING THIS/THESE THING(S) SHE WANTS?"



ps: I am not screaming. I always write in caps.


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TopicDate PostedPosted By
NLP Limited?25/06/2004 03:32:06Lance Rahn
     Re:NLP Limited?25/06/2004 08:35:11Tom
          Re:Re:NLP Limited?25/06/2004 13:48:14Lance Rahn
               Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?25/06/2004 16:19:24Venus Brown
                    Re:Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?25/06/2004 20:06:13Lance Rahn
                         Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?26/06/2004 04:40:08Max
                              Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?26/06/2004 18:24:26Venus Brown
                                   Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?28/06/2004 13:49:00Max
          Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 17:53:21JOHN JOHNSON
     Re:NLP Limited?26/06/2004 11:53:28Jon Edwards
     Re:NLP Limited?26/06/2004 23:52:45nj
     Re:NLP Limited?27/06/2004 14:26:24Greg Alexander
     Re:NLP Limited?27/06/2004 18:02:25richard
          Re:NLP Limited?28/06/2004 13:24:39Greg Alexander
               Re:Re:NLP Limited?28/06/2004 19:53:55Lance Rahn
                    Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?28/06/2004 20:45:22Venus Brown
                         Re:Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?29/06/2004 13:42:33Lance Rahn
                              Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 15:38:16Venus Brown
                    Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 22:18:31nj
                    Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 22:49:25nj
               Re:Re:NLP Limited?29/06/2004 11:55:10richard
                    Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 04:14:42Stephen1
                         Re:Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 06:10:51richard
                              Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 06:28:47Stephen1
                                   Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 16:28:48Richard
                                        Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 19:10:40JOHN JOHNSON
                                        Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 22:31:25nj
                                             Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?01/07/2004 15:06:04Lance Rahn
                              Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 06:45:38Greg Alexander
                                   Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 16:30:28Richard
                                        Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 18:00:29JOHN JOHNSON
          Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 18:02:04JOHN JOHNSON
     Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 17:52:02John Johnson
          Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 18:52:28Venus Brown
               Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 19:22:05JJ
                    Re:Re:Re:Re:NLP Limited?30/06/2004 20:37:14Venus Brown
     Re:NLP Limited?31/07/2004 22:42:08Robert Kamala

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