Dear desparate Pam Thank you for writing back to Whispering net support.com Please keep in mind Boyfriend 3.0 is an entertainment package,Husband 4.0 is an operating system. Our advise from previous applications and models is try going to our sister web site http://www.stopscreamingusingyourconsciousmind. com. From that site you are able to download Tears 6.2 or Whinning 9.99 and /or install Guilt 3.0. If all works as previous ly designed Husband 4.0 will re-run automatically Jewelry 2.0 and Flowers 12.0. But remember candy overuse (redundancy and being recursive)can cause Husband 4.0 to default to the Grumpy old man program 2.5 which will lead to Happy Hour5.07 which leads to more Beer drinking 6.66. Now beer 6.66 is a very tough program to work with and usually leads to Anger666 which then integrates with Argument1.01 and debate 1.01 which usually creates a Silensce and Loneliness model 0.00 application which leads to the Sleep Alone program snooze 3.33 and for your Husband 4.0 the Beer Drinking program also leads to Snooringloudly and I Can't remember now 8.88 application. Whatever you do Pamela do not install motherinlaw 1.0 or reinstall another Boyfriend program. These are not Whispering supported applications and will crash Husband 4.0. In summary Husband 4.0 is a great program, but it does have a limited attention and memory span as well as you cannot learn new applications too quickly. You might consider more unconcious software to improve memory and simplicity and performamce. I personally recomend the sweet talking, soft invitaitons, great wine, well cooked food and sexy lingerie 6.9 program.But calibrate wisely or you might lose everything. Good luck - tech support Th